Bouncing is not always a sign that you need to try harder. Often, it is a sign that your body is trying to protect, stabilise or catch up.
For a long time, I thought the way to improve my sitting trot was simply to practise it more.
So I took away my stirrups.
I sat for longer.
I tried harder to stay still.
And mostly, I just became tighter.
My thighs gripped.
My lower back braced.
My body became more rigid with every circuit of the arena.
I was practising sitting trot, but I was also practising the very patterns that were causing me to bounce.
That was the part I did not understand at the time.
Practice matters. Of course it does.
But repetition alone does not guarantee improvement.
When we repeatedly practise a movement using tension, gripping or poor timing, the body becomes more efficient at those strategies too.
It was not until I began to understand what was actually happening between the horse’s body and my own that sitting trot started to make more sense.
Instead of simply trying not to bounce, I could begin asking better questions.
Was I moving with the horse’s rhythm?
Were my hips free enough to follow?
Was my body supported enough to stay balanced?
Was I gripping because I lacked strength, suppleness or confidence in the movement?
Understanding the movement gave me something useful to practise.
And that changed everything.
Why Does A Rider Bounce?
At the trot, the horse’s back moves beneath you in a repeating rhythm.
It rises.
It travels forward.
It lowers again.
Your body needs to respond to that movement at the same speed.
When your pelvis and hips are able to follow, you move with the horse.
When they cannot, the movement lifts you away from the saddle.
This is what we experience as bouncing.
Once your body falls slightly behind the rhythm, the next stride arrives before you have fully returned to the saddle.
You are lifted again.
Then again.
The farther behind the movement you become, the more difficult it is to regain the rhythm.
This is why bouncing can feel as though it gathers momentum.
The natural response is often to try to sit down harder.
But pushing your seat into the saddle does not necessarily help you reconnect.
It can create more tension, reduce the movement available through your hips and make it even harder to follow the horse.
A deeper seat does not come from forcing yourself downward.
It develops when your body can stay supported while allowing the horse’s movement to travel through you.
Sitting Trot Is More Than An Up-And-Down Movement
From the outside, the trot can appear to be a simple upward and downward motion.
But the movement you feel in the saddle is more three-dimensional than that.
There is an upward and forward quality as the horse’s back rises, followed by a downward and slightly backward response as the stride continues.
Your pelvis needs to respond to this rhythm.
Your hip and knee joints subtly open and close.
Your thigh bones move within the hip sockets.
Your torso remains organised above the pelvis without becoming rigid.
None of this should feel like a large, exaggerated action.
You are not actively pumping your hips, driving your seat or forcing your pelvis forward and back.
The horse creates the movement.
Your job is to be available enough to receive it and supported enough not to be displaced by it.
That is what creates the appearance of stillness.
The rider may look quiet, but their body is not fixed.
There is a great deal of subtle movement happening beneath that quiet exterior.
Why Trying To Stay Still Can Make You Bounce More
Many riders assume that sitting trot requires them to hold their body still.
I did too.
But when you hold the pelvis, tighten the abdominal wall, grip the thighs or brace the lower back, you reduce the movement your body needs in order to follow the horse.
You may look controlled for a stride or two.
But you are not truly moving with the trot.
Eventually, the horse’s movement becomes greater than your ability to hold against it, and you are lifted away from the saddle.
This is the difference between true stability and controlled tightness.
True stability gives your body options.
It allows you to breathe, adjust and remain balanced while movement passes through you.
Controlled tightness simply fixes your body in place.
And a fixed body cannot follow a moving horse well.
Your Hips Need To Move Without Taking Your Pelvis With Them
One of the key requirements of a softer sitting trot is the ability of the thigh bones to move within the hip sockets without pulling the entire pelvis out of position.
This sounds technical, but you can feel the difference quite clearly.
When the hips are tight, the pelvis may tip, tuck, twist or rock excessively.
The rider might lean back to create more room through the front of the hips.
One leg may grip more strongly.
One seat bone may feel heavier than the other.
The lower back may begin doing the movement the hips cannot provide.
These are all compensation strategies.
Your body is trying to find a way to stay with the horse.
The goal is not to force these compensations away.
It is to improve the suppleness, strength and control underneath them.
When the thigh bones can move more freely within the sockets, the pelvis is better able to remain balanced while still responding to the horse.
This is one of the foundations of an independent seat.
Why Riders Lean Back
Leaning back is a common response when a rider struggles to follow the trot.
It can feel as though it helps you sit more deeply.
But often, it simply moves your upper body behind your pelvis and creates a new place for tension to collect.
The lower back may tighten.
The abdominal wall may stop supporting you effectively.
The hips can become even less available.
The rider then has to work harder to stop themselves being thrown further out of balance.
This does not mean your torso must remain rigidly vertical at every moment.
Your body will make subtle adjustments with the movement.
But the goal is to remain generally stacked and balanced over your pelvis rather than using a backward lean as a way to avoid opening through the hips.
When your body is aligned more efficiently, the forces of the trot can travel through you with less resistance.
Why Gripping Makes You Bounce
When you feel unstable, gripping can seem like the most natural solution.
Your thighs squeeze.
Your knees pinch.
Your glutes clench.
You try to hold yourself on.
The problem is that gripping can pull you away from the very movement you are trying to follow.
Tight thighs can restrict the hip joints.
Clenched glutes can stiffen the pelvis.
Pinching with the knees can lift the seat away from the saddle.
The more insecure you feel, the more you grip.
The more you grip, the harder it becomes to sit.
It becomes a cycle.
Again, your body is not doing this because it is failing.
It is doing it because it is searching for support.
That is why simply telling a rider to “stop gripping” is often not enough.
The body needs another strategy.
It needs enough rider-specific strength to remain supported without holding on.
You Need Strength—But Not Hardness
Sitting trot does require strength.
Your trunk must remain organised.
Your pelvis must be supported.
Your body has to manage the forces created by the horse’s movement.
But strength should not mean tightening everything as hard as possible.
The goal is not maximum tension.
It is appropriate tension.
Enough support to stay balanced.
Enough suppleness to remain available.
Enough control to adjust without becoming rigid.
I often describe this as elastic strength.
It is strength that can respond.
Strength that can soften.
Strength that allows movement rather than blocking it.
This is why a rider can be generally fit and still struggle with sitting trot.
The strength required is specific.
Your body needs to organise the torso while allowing freedom through the hips.
It needs to create stability without taking movement away.
Strong riders often feel softer because their bodies no longer need to grip for security.
Why “Just Relax” Does Not Always Work
Relaxation matters in sitting trot.
But telling yourself to relax does not automatically give your body the ability to do it.
You may consciously want to soften while your nervous system is receiving a very different message.
If the movement feels too large, too fast or too unstable, the body will create tension to protect you.
If your hips are near the edge of their comfortable range, they may tighten.
If your core cannot support the position, your thighs may try to help.
If you feel unbalanced, your hands may become fixed.
This is not a lack of willingness.
It is a lack of available options.
Relaxation becomes much easier when your body feels prepared for the movement.
This is why off-horse work matters.
You can improve your suppleness.
You can build strength within your available range.
You can practise moving the hips while keeping the pelvis and spine organised.
You can develop better awareness of your left and right sides.
Then, when your coach asks you to soften, your body has a greater chance of being able to respond.
Bouncing Can Also Be A Timing Problem
Even a rider with good strength and supple hips can bounce when they lose the horse’s rhythm.
Every horse has a different trot.
Some horses have a smaller, quicker movement.
Others have a large, expressive stride that requires more control and range from the rider.
The rhythm may also change as the horse becomes more balanced, more forward or more collected.
This is why sitting trot is not something you learn once and then own forever.
Your seat must continue adapting.
Start by feeling the rhythm in rising trot.
Notice the speed of the stride.
Notice how the horse’s back feels beneath you.
Then sit for a few strides without trying to manufacture the movement.
Allow your body to respond.
Return to rising trot before you lose the rhythm or begin gripping.
This is a much more useful way to practise than remaining seated while the quality steadily deteriorates.
Better Practice, Not More Punishment
There is a saying that practice makes perfect.
I am not sure perfection is a particularly helpful destination for riders.
It can make us afraid to begin, impatient with the process or overly critical of every mistake.
Sitting trot is not a final destination you arrive at.
It is a lifelong process of developing your awareness, timing, strength, suppleness and feel.
Your seat will continue to evolve as your body changes, as your riding improves and as you ride different horses.
So the aim is not perfect practice.
The aim is thoughtful practice.
Practice that helps you recognise when your body is moving well.
Practice that stops before fatigue turns suppleness into tension.
Practice that gives you useful information rather than simply asking you to endure more bouncing.
A few good strides can teach your body far more than multiple laps of the arena performed with clenched thighs and a braced back.
How To Practise Sitting Trot More Effectively
Begin in rising trot and establish a clear, comfortable rhythm.
Then sit for three to five strides.
During those strides, notice:
Can you breathe?
Can you allow your thighs to drape?
Can you feel both seat bones?
Can your hips respond without your whole torso rocking?
Can your hands remain soft?
Can you return to rising trot before tension takes over?
As those few strides improve, gradually add more.
This allows your body to develop capacity without repeatedly rehearsing a poor pattern.
You may also find it helpful to practise transitions between walk, rising trot and sitting trot.
These transitions teach your body to organise and reorganise itself rather than simply surviving a long period of sitting.
No-stirrup work can be useful too, but only when used thoughtfully and progressively.
Avoid doing things like month long no stirrup work. Instead start with 5 minutes once a week and slowly build.
Removing the stirrups does not automatically create a deeper seat.
If you are gripping, bouncing or leaning back, continuing without stirrups may simply increase the tension.
Use short periods.
Protect your horse’s back.
And prioritise quality over duration.
Your Horse Matters Too
Sitting trot is a conversation between two bodies.
Your horse needs enough strength, balance and freedom through the back to carry you comfortably.
A horse that is hollow, braced, crooked or rushing will be more difficult to sit to.
Equally, a rider who is bouncing or gripping can make it harder for the horse to remain soft through the back.
This can create a domino effect.
The rider braces because the horse feels tight.
The horse tightens because the rider feels rigid.
Neither body is necessarily the sole cause.
But as riders, we can take responsibility for what we bring to the conversation.
We can work toward becoming more supported, more balanced and more available.
A softer, better-organised rider gives the horse more opportunity to remain soft too.
Your Saddle Can Influence Your Ability To Sit
It is also worth considering the saddle.
A saddle that tips you forward, places you behind the movement or restricts your hips can make sitting trot significantly harder.
You may spend the entire ride fighting gravity and then assume the problem is your body.
The saddle needs to suit both horse and rider.
If you consistently feel pushed out of balance or unable to settle despite careful training, it may be worth having the fit assessed for both of you.
The Goal Is Not To Stop Moving
The goal of sitting trot is not to make your body motionless.
It is to become organised enough that your movement blends with the horse’s.
When that happens, the rider appears quiet because the two bodies are moving together.
Your hips remain available.
Your torso remains supported.
Your thighs no longer need to grip.
Your hands no longer need to balance you.
Your seat bones remain connected without being driven downward.
This is the soft seat we are working toward.
Not passive.
Not loose.
Not held rigidly in place.
Supported, responsive and available.
Start By Working On Your Body Off The Horse
When you understand why you bounce, the solution becomes much clearer.
You do not necessarily need to practise sitting trot for longer.
You may need to improve what your body can bring to it.
More freedom through the hips.
More control through the trunk.
Better symmetry.
Greater awareness.
More strength within the position.
This is the work we focus on inside Dressage Rider Training.
By improving your body off the horse, you give yourself more options when you ride.
Because a soft seat is not created by trying harder to stay still.
It is created when your body has enough support to move with the horse without needing to hold on.
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